As a person who longs to help others find Genuine Inner Peace and Love, and also longs to protect others from pain and harm. I came across this post and feel the need to share. I pray others may find it helpful.
We must be truthful with ourselves and our actions in order to reach true contentment and peace. Blaming others and looking for sympathy by portraying yourself as a victim will never bring you peace. Find the strength to be Honest with yourself and others.
With Respect, Hope, Joy and Love, Carmela
Ownership paves the way for empowerment and positive change.
When something goes wrong in your personal life and/or at work – how do you respond?
Externalize the cause of the problem and 100% blame someone or something else for the failure.
OR
Internalize the cause (if only 1%) of the failure.
It is only when we acknowledge our contribution to life circumstances (both good and bad) that we have the power to overcome daily challenges, limitations, and history and in doing so, be transformed!
Carmela Snelbaker 
3 thoughts on “Blaming keeps you stuck.”
pawan35
I am responsible for my life – for all my suffering, for my pain, for all that has happened to me and is happening to me – I have chosen it this way; these are the seeds that I sowed and now I am reaping the crop; I am responsible – once this insight becomes a natural understanding in us, then everything else is simple.
Then life starts taking a new turn, starts moving into a new dimension. That dimension is conversion, revolution, mutation – because once I know I am responsible, I also know that I can drop it any moment I decide to. Nobody can prevent me from dropping it.
A lovely insightful teaching thank you Carmela for sharing this.
carmelasnelbaker
Thank you as always for reading and for your comments. Very well said.
With Respect, Hope, Joy and Love, Carmela
pawan35
I told you I guess I read what others say because it helps to understand and know whether they and me are having same kind of vibes.Thank you again for your kind blessings.
Be blessed…..Namaste