Carmela Snelbaker

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    • Living In Love

      Posted at 4:04 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      Jul 30th

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      Many years ago my heart was awakened to the fact that when you allow God to take complete control of your life and genuinely live with complete trust in God with no fear of the world, amazing things do happen before your eyes. Although it may not always be completely as we would have planned it, when living “In and With The Lords Love” you need not fear!

      I am feeling as though I need to tell you of an event that happened to me long ago when some may say that my heart acted with reckless abandon but the Lord “had my back”. I was working midnight to morning hours in a residential care home. This position was an awake overnight in a home where 4 individuals lived who needed support. There was a knock at the door about 1:30 AM and I answered the door finding a person who told me that her car had broken down asking to use the phone. I didn’t think twice about it, when she asked to use the phone to call her husband I left her in.

      Soon after leaving her in she began to act suspiciously and raised some red flags to me. My intuition began telling me that she was there to rob the residents. She began telling me that she had worked at the home in the past, asked many questions, and asked to wait inside until her ride got there.

      Because I had that internal alarm going off and I was sure she was dishonest, I immediately put all the keys to any money, valuables or medicine of the resident in my pocket. I very cautiously protected their belonging and was very comfortable in her company even though I felt sure she was being deceitful.

      While she was making her call a resident woke and joined us. When my attention was distracted from her she went through my purse and took my wallet. She then asked me to use the bathroom. When I escorted her to the location of the bathroom she then commented about the renovations we had made since she was employed there.  Asking details what is this door too and so on. This fact proved to me that my suspicions were right! She later came out of the bathroom and continued to chat and visit with me.

      She seemed to sense that I was suspicious of her so she changed the story of why she was there. She then when into an elaborate story of how her husband beats her and she used to come there and they would give her shelter. The story went on, she stayed longer, and even asked me to make her a sandwich when she seen the resident getting himself a sandwich. Before she left the house she made one more request of me. She asked if I could get her a sweatshirt or something to put on because it was cold out. I immediately knew this request was simply to get me to leave the room, because my instincts still did not trust her Instead of leaving I offered her the Jacket I was wearing. She tried to put it on but it was to small. She then left. As she left I told her I would say a prayer for her and watched her cross the yard. I truly did say a prayer for her.

      The next morning when the AM staff came in I relayed the incident to them being sure to tell them that I was sure she was looking for cash but I kept the keys on me and made sure she was not able to roam freely. I then collected my things and returned home.

      Later that day I received a phone call from my bank telling me that someone picked up my wallet that had been thrown out along a nearby street! She had taken my wallet and went shopping at the local 24 hour store and then in the morning went to the bank and cashed a check for the remainder of the funds. She also had my drivers license and even though our appearances were as drastically different as possible they allowed her to cash the checks.

      Police were called, and because she stayed so long and talked with me she was very easily identified by those who worked with her previously, and by me in a photo array as well. I had no cash along that night (other than 50 cents in the pocket of the jacket I tried to give her) but because of the way things transpired I was not harmed in any way and all of the money that she had taken through cashing checks was returned to me by the bank.

      The bank had her photo, the signature on the checks were not even a close resemblance of mine and they admitted that it was their mistake for not looking at her identification to compare our photos. The police later told me that she was out on probation when she did this and the time before when she stole a check and cashed it she had signed her name to it.

      After all of this transpired I was very upset and angry and as I was explaining the story to a coworker I stressed that I waved goodby to her and even went in and said a prayer for her!  “Carmela, I think it worked” she said. “All is well ,no one is harmed and everything is coming right back to you!” The Lord “Had my back” 🙂

      That was many years ago and although I did come across her picture not to long ago, I have not heard how she is doing. I wish her nothing bad and I truly hope that she has changed for the good.

      Be faithful and do not fear-

      Isaiah 8:9-10  9. Raise the war cry you nations and be shattered!

      Listen, all you distant lands. Prepare for battle, and be shattered!

      10. Devise your strategy, but it will be thwarted: propose your plan,

      but it will not stand, for God is with us .

       

      We can not control what other people do or how they chose to live. The only thing we can do is LIVE IN LOVE and Pray for other people.

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      Here is one of my favorite songs from  The Sidewalk Profits

       

      With Respect, Hope, Joy and Love,   Carmela

       

       

       

       

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    • Time

      Posted at 5:05 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      Jun 29th

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      Teach us to make the most of our time, so that we may grow in wisdom –    Psalm 90:12

       

      Take time to love and be loved— It is the God-given privilege

      Take time to pray—- It is the greatest power on earth

      Take time to read—- It is the fountain of wisdom

      Take time to think— It is the source of power

      Take time to give— It is too short a day to be selfish

      Take time to be friendly—- It is the road to happiness

      Take time to laugh— It is the music of the soul

      Take time to play— It is the secret of perpetual youth

      Take time to work—- It is the price of success

       

      With respect, hope, joy and love,   Carmela

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    • Raising Money for a Cure / Please Read SHARE and Help Us!

      Posted at 3:17 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      Jun 21st

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      Please help us raise money for a cure for Mitochondrial Disease. Mitochondrial Disease we now know the disease is approaching the frequency of childhood cancers. Each year, 1,000 to 4,000 children in the United states are born with a mitochondrial disease.   Wyatt’s birthday is in July and he loved  family outings, traveling, and site seeing. Instead of planning a walk/run at a specific location we have set the event up so that anyone anywhere can join in and celebrate with us. I am sure as you walk in different locations all over the world Wyatt will be smiling in heaven and enjoying every minute with us!

      Here is what you do….

      Step1. Sign up/register Here ($20 entry fee)

      Step2. you will receive a running bib to pin on when you walk, some fun temp tatoo’s and an

      awesome medal for participating.

      Step3. Plan a family outing somewhere fun, wear you running bibs and tatoo’s  HAVE FUN  walk

      run or roll however far you can. Most importantly enjoy the day with your family and friends.

      Step4, Please be sure to upload a Fun, Silly, Happy Photo to Wyatt’s event facebook page

      Or if you choose not to run but would simply like to make a donation you can do that here

      With respect, hope, joy, and love,

      Carmela

       

       

       

       

       

       

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    • Daily Loving Encounters

      Posted at 4:33 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      Mar 26th

                               

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      The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy you can contain…….Kahlil Gibran

      As a grandmother who has lost a grandson I am finding the thought of moving beyond the brokenness unimaginable at times. Someone made a comment to me that was not in relation to losing a grandchild in death however, it was about being a grandparent who lives “a thousand miles away” from their grandchild and longing to live closer. He said, “My solution (temporary, until I can join them) is to love everyone I encounter with the love my Savior gave to me. That isn’t such a bad alternative, after all”.
      This reminded me of a situation the other day that I experienced with a child about the same age of my grandson. As I was working on a project in a store, one isle away from me (entertaining himself for quite some time alone) a young boy was playing with plastic dinosaurs. He was very contently acting out noises and actions as if he was putting on a well rehearsed play. I smiled at him and complimented him on his knowledge about the dinosaurs. This simple friendly comment led to a quite long interaction with the youngster as he very eagerly shared more of his knowledge, imitations and stories of the books he read on the subject of dinosaurs.
      Once you live through the loss of a child you are forever aware of how precious each and every minute is. Even though this little one appeared to be content in independent play he truly loved the attention and seemed to be in need of kind interaction. After quite awhile his mother finally came looking for him. We said goodbye and I told him that I was sure one day I would be picking up a magazine that will have his photo as a paleontologist and an article on a dinosaur site that he was exploring. His face beamed with a proud smile. When he walked away my heart was once again became consumed with the sadness of missing my grandson, but I pray that by treating the young boy in the store in the same manner and with the same love that I would have treated my grandson it provided a positive memory for him as well as sent a smile and a hug to my grandson in heaven.

      With respect, hope, love and joy,

      Carmela

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      Posted in Meditative Writings | Tagged gifts of love, grandchildren, Grief, Jesus, loss of child, love
    • You Have To Face The Clouds To Find The Silver Lining

      Posted at 3:38 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      Mar 20th

      A favorite song What Faith Can Do- by Kutless

      Hope you enjoy, click to listen below…

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    • Don’t Let It Get The Best Of You

      Posted at 6:24 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      Mar 18th

      Hope you enjoy this song as much as I do. It definitely picks up a low mood 🙂

      Overcomer  by: Mandisa

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    • If Courage Is A Flower Desire Is The Water That Helps It Grow

      Posted at 11:08 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      Mar 14th

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      “Moral excellence comes about as a result of habit. We become just by doing just acts, temperate by doing temperate acts, brave by doing brave acts.” – Aristotle

                               Courage

      Being courageous is not allowing our limiting beliefs stop us from accomplishing what we want. It’s about following through with difficult procedures, tasks or dreams when everyone and everything around us says it’s impossible to do.

      If Courage is a flower desire is the water that helps it to grow.

      One cannot have courage apart from desire. The fire fighter rushes into the building to rescue someone with great courage only because he has the desire to help others. The desire to help is the very thing that gives him such great courage. The teenager that tries out for a role in the high school musical has the desire to entertain others. The student that studies medicine has the desire to heal people.  Might this be an example of the awesome universal connection that is available to every living being? One apart from the other will fail.

      Is the humble willingness of a person to open their heart to accept and ask for assistance from God what gives a Hero the amazing sometimes super human strength and desire to both endure and react heroically?

      There are many places within the Bible that state “Do not be afraid, for I am with you.”

      What if a very simple silent prayer for Divine help is all we need to fill our heart with both desire and courage.

      The Immenseness of our universe is both unimaginable and magical. Simply take a moment to admire the stars on a clear night. Quiet your thoughts and simply be still in the moment. One persons’ physical presence seems so incredibly small and insignificant under the vast sky.

      However if a person opens their heart and mind and asks for wisdom and guidance from the very maker of the stars the significance and potential  increase immensely  as a beautiful Divine light of desire and courage will  glow from within. Might it be this connection, the companionship of human and divine that leads us to an unimaginable coexistence filled with joy, love, wisdom and peace?

      Every day we are faced with situations that require courage. Some may be mild and others can be devastatingly harsh. Planning ahead and thinking through how we can possibly respond may be helpful in reducing stress and increasing courage, but most importantly always keeping your heart and mind open to and listening for the whisper of Divine guidance from within will give us the courage we need to stand up for what is right and just and possess the confidence to respond in a brave and compassionate manner.

      With respect, hope, joy, and love,

      Carmela

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      Join together for Peace

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    • Don’t Be Afraid

      Posted at 11:04 AM by carmelasnelbaker
      Feb 23rd
      Wyatt’s Movie Don’t be afraid

      Wyatt’s Movie Don’t be afraid

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    • Defeating Defeat

      Posted at 2:41 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      Feb 21st

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      Let your inner Child of God help. Life in this world is not easy. When everything around us makes no sense, pray. It does not matter where you are or how eloquent your wording simply ask for help. I heard  Dr. Wayne Dyer speak once as he explained so beautifully that when we open our hearts to allow a divine connection with God we are always in touch with the solutions we are seeking. Please read more of his thoughts here.

      I enjoy listening to a variety of inspiration music. One of my favorites is Matthew West, Hello my name is…  I hope you also will take a moment to listen to the entire song by clicking below. It also speaks of reaching beyond ourselves and connecting with The Divine Spirit that can lead us to a peace that surpasses all understanding.

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      1 John 3:1 Behold, What Love our Father has bestowed on us…..

      With respect, hope, joy and love,    Carmela

       

       

       

       

       

       

       

       

       

       

       

       

       

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    • Our Family’s Safety Ring of Peace

      Posted at 5:28 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      Feb 20th

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      Much time has passed since my last post. I seem to have been at a loss for words since the passing of my grandson. Grief is a very strange thing. There is much written about it and many thoroughly explained steps of grief are defined, but there is no quick recovery and each event is so very different.

      Several months before Wyatt’s passing he was very anxious and afraid. He was having bad dreams and medications were causing some hallucinations. I happened to be wearing a thin silver band ring with the word PEACE engraved on it. I gave him my ring, and had a conversation with him.  “This can be your safety ring. Do you remember in church how we share the peace with our neighbor?” Shaking hands and saying “Peace be with you”. “Yes” he answered. “Wear the ring to remind you that you are safe and fold your hands and say, Dear God, Please take all the scary stuff away.” The ring reminds us that we’re not alone comfort is just a prayer away. The ring and prayers brought him comfort.
      We also talked about having a family ring made. He could chose what he wanted it to look like and say. We each would have a ring and wear it so even when we are not together we can wear and feel safe. He discussed the ring with mom dad and sisters and they decided on having a silver band with a small heart stamped on the band and inside the band it would say forever loved. We had them made and wore them. We were comforted by the connection of the ring and the reminder we are not alone. The ring continues to bring me comfort I treasure the daily reminder of my loving grandson’s presence and the comfort of our loving God.

      With respect, hope, joy and love,  Carmela

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