Carmela Snelbaker

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    • My Dad’s Sense Of Humor

      Posted at 4:08 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      Aug 4th

      As I was reading another bloggers recent post, I was reminded of a memory of my dad. Since this blog is an old scrapbook that I am sharing of his, I thought I would share a bit of his sense of humor here as well.

      My dad was a very avid reader. From current news, political writings, science magazines, to novels. If he had idle time he was reading. As a father he loved to share his wisdom whenever he could. He also had a very funny sense of humor.

      I moved back in to live with my dad when my dad was in his eighties. Living with my dad in his later years created many more memories to add to those from childhood. I am not sure why but, my dad often felt the need to comment on my outfits. He sometimes would tell me that my outfit looked nice. Other times he wouldn’t necessarily say that he didn’t like it, but rather leave me with a statement that would spark a thought. Sometimes I would be in the mood to chuckle about it, and other times I did not appreciate the humor 🙂  Later, I must admit, I would remember it and have to chuckle to myself.

      One particular morning I was dressed to leave for work. As I came out the hall my dad was sitting on his recliner and stated, ” My God, is that what they are wearing these days? You look like you’re dressed for a Civil War re-enactment!” I was rushed that morning and not exactly welcoming his “what not to wear” opinions:)  I continued on to work. As I went about my work day the memory of his comment did cause me to chuckle. Because I work with many elderly people I thought they would also get a chuckle from his comment.  As I showed up to greet them, I started my own senior citizen poll on the subject…, “Do I look like I’m dressed for a Civil War re-enactment? ” No-one actually was brave enough to agree with him, although it certainly brought about some smiles and a lighthearted conversation.

      I enjoyed, and still do enjoy memories of my dad’s silliness, and his ability to calmly make a one line remark that would bring about a smile and a chuckle.

      With respect, hope, joy and love,

      Carmela

      This post was written for the daily prompt: back to the future. Write a story about a person or a thing that is out of place. Although I didn’t think I was out of place, my dad did 🙂

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      Posted in Family Stories | Tagged children, civil war, dad, daily post challenge, emotions, families, family, gratitude, happy familiy, love, sense of humor
    • Please Help Our American Children and Profoundly Ill

      Posted at 2:32 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      Aug 1st

      Please help me bring awareness and help innocent children get the medical treatment they deserve and need. This is a hard post for me to write. It truly makes me extremely emotional.  I have a grandson who has been affected by The National Drug shortages numerous times. He has complete intestinal failure. The only nutrition that he can take is through intravenous infusion. He receives TPN given over a 24 hour period. Because his stomach and intestines do not absorb anything, he also has to receive any medications through intravenous infusion. Infusion medications are continuously going on shortage. Please read this article about the many children in the United States that are affected and are dying due to these shortages.  Please read this post Children are Dying from the Washingtonian

      The Washingtonian reports that “Experts call the nutrient shortage a public-health crisis and a national emergency—and are astounded that the government and manufacturers have let the situation become so dire.”

      Here is an article the refers to the fact that the very same items that are considered unavailable to American hospitals and Doctors are being used and in supply during the reported shortages. The Newest Celebrity Trend Uses Nutrients Hospitals Desperately Need . In my opinion it should be considered a criminal act for a private company to dispense items on the National Shortage List for cosmetic reasons when our hospitals can not obtain the very same items for life supporting uses! Athletes use intravenous infusions to gain the upper hand in competition, and many others for beauty treatment, and hangover cures. The participants who have any sort of  medical accreditation’s who participate or help with the nonsensical use of these items when there is a shortage, should lose their license to practice medicine.

      As for the FDA and our DEA it is time someone put in place a Pro Active plan to prevent shortages. If it is possible for these private clinics to make a statement that they are well stocked and several miles down the road the hospital is stating they cannot obtain the same items, we need to examine why as well as make a plan to enforce private clinics such as the Hangover Heaven bus and Proactive Wellness Centers from jumping in and buying up the supplies that may be causing the shortages in the first place.

      I am and will continue to pray for the innocent children and profoundly ill people who are suffering because of this.  Please help me spread the word and bring a positive change for the American Children and profoundly ill who are suffering and dying!

      Here is a link to an article from Huffington Post  What’s behind the drug shortages?

      With respect, hope, joy and love,

      Carmela

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      Posted in Meditative Writings | Tagged American medicine, Child, children, drug companies, hang over heaven, love, medical, National drug shortage, profound illness, respect, selfish greed, vitamins, wellness clinics
    • Don’t Forget To Play

      Posted at 9:16 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      Jul 15th
      Play with your children
      everyday

      inside, outside

      doesn’t matter

      Image

      Yell, hide and seek

      and watch them scatter!

      With respect, hope, joy and love,

                       Carmela

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      Posted in Meditative Writings | Tagged Child, child developement, children, enjoy, fun, gratitude, love, play
    • The simple curve of a smile can set a lot of things straight

      Posted at 9:59 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      Jun 28th

            Through Humor, you soften some of the worst blows that life delivers, and once you find laughter, no matter how painful your situation might be you can survive it. …. Bill Cosby     

      I am beginning to believe that developing a good sense of humor as a child just might be one of the most important puzzle pieces to a successful and healthy future.ImageEven though we attempt to plan for our future, life has a way of dealing out unpredictable surprises. In the midst of the most sad and serious moments I have had to endure, I like to believe God is the one sending me a silly moment that makes me chuckle to lighten the burden.

      As a parent and grandparent I believe It is so important to encourage a child’s sense of humor. Be silly, read silly books with your child, make humor and laughter a part of each day. It is never to late to teach a child to develop a healthy sense of humor. I heard someone say once that a good sense of humor in life, is like shock absorbers are to vehicles. It can take away some of those nasty, unpleasant bumps.  It truly is as Bill Cosby puts it, once you find laughter, know matter how painful your situation might be you can survive it. Be sure to make many fun and silly memories, so your child has many to select from when experiencing a difficult time!

      As a caregiver I have seen the positive effects of humor. It can diffuse aggression and anger, as well as turn tears into a smile. It also has a calming effect when someone feels nervous or embarrassed. Small children respond to “Oh no, You must have forgot to put your smile on this morning!” Causing the child to stop and think about getting dressed and physically putting a smile on, just might be enough to redirect the unhappy thought and mood and engage them in a playful imaginary hunt for their lost smile.

      A very important thing to remember is humor must never be hurtful or disrespectful. It is possible to recognize funny situations or find humor in a funny story without making fun of a person. I really believe that our “bullying” situations in our schools are simply misguided children, attempting to get people to like them or get noticed by making others laugh, at the expense of another person. I have seen adults with low self-esteem attempt to make themselves look better by tearing another person down and then boasting about their own abilities. Sadly many times they are not at all aware of what they are doing. This is simply what they have felt they needed to do and have been doing it their entire lives.

      I found a beautiful blog: Sending Hope  by: Tracy Hodge That speaks of this very issue. She puts it so perfectly that I am feeling the need to share her words. This is how she put it… Great people, truly great people, are not afraid of the greatness of others. They are not intimidated nor are they threatened when others around them succeed or even surpass them. Great people enjoy lifting others up and never mind showing others the way. On the other hand, small people like to be surrounded by other small people. Small people tear others down in laughter and seldom offer a kind word unless it is to flatter someone in their favor. Small people gossip out of jealousy and have no concept of loyalty. (You can read the entire blog by clicking here)

      Holding The Sky

      Mother Teresa once said: The fruit of Love is service, The fruit of service is peace, And peace begins with a smileImage

      Two very important things to remember…..  Always remember before you put on a frown, make absolutely certain there are no smiles available. and…..If you meet someone without a smile, give them one of yours. You may never know what a positive affect that may bring to the person who has none.

      With respect, hope, joy and love,    Carmela

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      Posted in Meditative Writings | Tagged Bill cosby quote, child development, childhood bullying, children, fun, kindness, love, respect, sense of humor, silly, teaching respect, teaching values
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