Carmela Snelbaker

Author of "Thank You For Your Service, Sheep!"
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    • Caregiver Needing Help to Help others

      Posted at 9:34 AM by carmelasnelbaker
      Aug 16th

      Sometimes it takes an unexpected event to unveil a very significant roadside safety need for drivers of personal Wheelchair accessible vehicles (WAV).

      When a friend drove his WAV vehicle to the local grocery store and returned to the parking lot to find that the van had a problem that required it to be towed back to the dealership…….. This situation put a spotlighted on the question of …………..How does the person requiring wheelchair transport find a ride home after their vehicle is towed back to the dealership for repairs? ………..

      In this situation it was 20 degree weather getting dark out and he lived about 2 miles away from the location the van was towed away from. He drives a rechargeable electric wheelchair. He is unable to transfer into another vehicle from his wheelchair and lives in an area where there is no WAV Uber or Lift services and dealerships have no WAV response vehicles or plan that helps out in this situation!

      He ended up driving his electric wheelchair back to his home. Thankfully the situation ended safely but truly reveled a HUGE NEED for SAFE ROADSIDE ASSISTANCE for people driving independent WAV vehicles.

      My hope and plan for helping to resolve this situation is to develop a non profit organization that will provide a solution for the individuals who drive WAV vehicles. By developing a WAV owners association that drivers of the WAV vehicles could join. The plan would be to build a national website where WAV owners can access if they find themselves in this sort of need. When you are stranded without a ride you would be able to type in the zip code where you are located and the website will locate other members or dealerships who choose to participate and also drive or own WAV vehicles in your surrounding area, providing a way for those who completely understand the situation need to provide help and assistance to each other. As a caregiver to those who drive and need WAV vehicle transportation I also plan on being an active part of the website and “response plan” responder. I would love to own a manual WAV van that I would be able to use to respond to help those who find themselves in need of assistance.

      The development of this plan however not only will involve startup costs but also website building knowledge and abilities beyond what I am currently able to independently provide. If there is anyone out there who is willing to help with developing this plan through donating website building skills or help with financial assistance please reach out to me.

      I have many years of experience driving and transporting people in many different types of WAV vehicles and trained in safety procedures and appropriately securing wheelchairs for transportation.

      Please feel free to respond in the comments or contact me directly.

      With Respect, Hope, Joy and Love, Carmela

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      Posted in Meditative Writings | Tagged #CarmelaSnelbaker, #Life, cars, developingnonprofit, Disability, Health, helping others, news, roadside safety, safety, travel, WAV, wheelchair accessible vehicles
    • What if?

      Posted at 1:50 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      May 15th

      I appologize in advance because nothing I write here will probably make complete sense to anyone other then me. I cannot share details about others I take care of or that are involved in my life.

      However, events, encounters and the questions that often get left behind, after traumatic events and the struggle to make sense out of so much hurt is not an uncommon dilemma.

      I hope by sharing the hurts and questions that weigh so heavy on my heart it might make sense to someone struggling with the same questions.

      There are way to many painful experiences that people go through that leave us devastated and searching for a path out of such deep hurt.

      The things we have in common with others are not always apparent when we first meet someone.

      The scars one has on their heart is not a visable trait for a passerby to see.

      Time passes, we somehow find a way to move forward along with the rest of world but the hurts that hit the heart the hardest never really go away.

      It is possible for people who appear to have amazing resiliency from past traumatic events to be truly living their lives as if they have been “cast in a roll in a play”. Survival is necessary because others depend on us.

      Hearts scarred from life tragedies can identify with others “surviving” with scarred hearts, there is a heightened awarness and recognition of deep hurts in others.

      Is the road less traveled the tragically broken heart that keeps walking even when your body simply wants to stop breathing?

      Is the road less traveled the road where those with broken hearts attempt to seek out other “play actors” walking forward with hidden traumatic pain in an attempt to be the positive influence and offer the very support and love they desperatly need themselves?

      Is the road less traveled the road that keeps an open heart and empathy toward all people in pain even those showing unsettled rage and aggression because of devestation and pain?

      What if all of the hate in the world is emotionally misdirected hurt and rage?

      What if the road less traveled is the road of silencing human feelings, the emotional pain and praying for the message of God to take over?

      As I type this I sit here crying, the only words coming to mind are….. “now wait, now….. you just have to be smarter then the chair you are working on” ………… recalculating …… return to route

      Please leave your thought below……… open a discussion with others….. share you thoughts, fears, hopes with others……

      Nothing can ever be resolved without putting words to feelings, sharing experiences and most importantly being sensitive and empathetic to other situations

      With Respect, Hope, Joy and Love, Carmela

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    • If We Can Choose Our Demise I Want To Go Out Like This Cat ….. :) Taken By Curiosity

      Posted at 5:46 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      Aug 23rd

      via Daily Prompt: Learning

      With the quiet ticking of the Grandfather clock in the background as I sit here and contemplate the Daily Post Word prompt of the day, it brings a bit of a smile to my lips. I am not sure when I first heard the phrase “Curiosity killed the cat”, but I do know that it was something that my dad said to me often.

      I wonder now if he was saying it as a caution to me. It seems that I have a very natural personality trait of unending curiosity as well as a fearless unstoppable urge to stop at nothing when it comes to advocating or improving a situation for those in need.

      In reminiscing  on the many life lessons I have lived through and learned from. I must admit that the “obligatory response trigger” my heart seems to have, has been known to disturb the calm in my life at times. When I cause my own life disturbance because of reaching out to improve things for others, after the dust settles I am always glad I did.

      So I suppose knowing my inner instincts and personal history, if my Dr. had psychic abilities and could foresee my future “I am sorry, it’s curiosity” may very well be a diagnosis I could one day hear as well.

      I could think of worse ways for a life to end though. If I say goodbye to this world helping another soul, or learning or teaching a positive lesson of Love, I choose to believe it would be a good thing.

      curiosity-killed-the-cat  newton

      So I am with the cat on this one!! Keep looking for answers. “Be Positive”,”Be Brave” (as Wyatt would say) and never stop asking questions, making improvements and being curious. 🙂

      CuriosityKilledTheCat-12234    CuriosityKilledCat

      With Respect, Hope, Joy and Love,   Carmela

       

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