Carmela Snelbaker

Author of "Thank You For Your Service, Sheep!"
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    • Long Journeys Need Smiles

      Posted at 12:40 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      Jun 19th

      When I seen the sign “You Are NOT Almost There” it made me laugh, and remember a time many years ago when my daughter and I eagerly embarked on a day hike 6 miles into the Grand Canyon.

      Guess What?

      6 miles down is a breeze……..

      6 miles up at 110 degrees is NOT……. lol

      In support and outreach to others………

      On our challenging journey out of the Canyon (although we did not make a sign) we were sure to caution every passing hiker on the way into the canyon!

      DOWN IS EASY…. but…. UP IS NOT EASY

      Life is not always fun and we sometimes make choices or eagerly follow a path that turns out to take us on quite a different journey then we once expected!

      Thankfully when you put Faith in a Higher Power you are NOT in this alone.

      Sometimes it is more about what you are walking away from than what you are walking to.

      Possibly the most important thing we find when walking away from difficult experiences is an amazing inner strength that somehow carrys our body’s through disasters when our minds are numb and our muscles simply roboticly move us forward.

      Survival instinct may not always be about an amazing human strength that powers us through difficult challenges but quite possibly better explained as the intuitive Power of Divine Guidance.

      I also believe in something my family likes to refer to as Divine Comic Relief. These are times within the saddest or most serious moments we are experiencing when something happens and in within the most serious of times you can’t help but laugh.

      We need smiles to get us through the tearful times!

      I like to believe those times as well are sent to us from God.

      Recently I have been enjoying a lot of time in the woods walking on trails. There is a peacefulness in the atmosphere, the fragrances and songs of the birds keep your mind anchored in the present moment. There is nothing more calming the enjoying then truly experiencing the very moment you are in without distraction.

      “We need to find God and he cannot be found in noise and restlessness. God is the friend of silence. See how nature, trees, flowers, grass, grow in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence. We need silence to be able to touch souls”. Mother Teresa

      Many years ago someone recomended a book to me called Grandma Gatewoods Walk. It is a true story about amazingly strong lady who simply read an article in National Geographic magazine about the Appalachian Trail and then just decided to thru hike it…….. she knew her family would advise her against it so she just decided to tell them she was going on a walk…… leaving out the fact that it was a two thousand and fifty mile long walk. LOL

      Emma Gatewood was 67 years old when she decided to take this walk!

      She eventually did have to be truthful with her family when national publications began following her to publish articles on her solo thru hike.

      You can read more about her here Appalachian Trail Histories/Emma Gatewood

      I have shared the audio version of this book with elderly individuals I have taken care of. Many of them found it very interesting and recognized some of the local history that was referenced as she was traveling through the local areas of the Appalachian Trail in Pennsylvania. I will share a link here if you are interested in possibly sharing it with others.

      I pray all those struggling through difficult paths find Peaceful Moments, Silent times to be with God, and some Heaven sent smiles to keep you moving forward and finding Hope.

      With Hope, Joy, Peace and Love, Carmela

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    • “Well, I guess one can’t be Jealous without showing it”

      Posted at 10:24 AM by carmelasnelbaker
      Jun 5th

      God how I wish things just made sense. I wish life events just stop hitting so hard. Sometimes I truly want to stop my life and ask God, “Where do I get the bus that takes me out of here. Please, I have had enough now!”

      So to all the people who feel grand inadequacy, lonelyness and confusion……. I am with you! I am willing to bet there are many of us out there.

      To all the people who find it hard to put words or comprehensive thoughts to the feelings behind the inadequacy, I understand I struggle with this daily and have for quite some time. Life is fluid, always changing and at times hard to keep up with.

      I have found that during each current struggle with prayer, reflection and purging of words onto paper some amount of understanding or clarity begins to show. In some respects there may never be the “right” answer but if we examine the feelings behind the issues we can, at the very least, find some sort of empathy toward the opposing view.

      When I was in my thirties I quit my full-time job to be with my mother, who had just found out she would most likely have only 6 more months to live. Although measured time is very treasured and I am forever grateful for every additional moment I was able to spend with her, at the time I was very upset with the doctor for telling my mother her time was so limited. It weighed heavy on her mind and the sadness was devestating.

      After my mom had died and life began to get back to normal I met someone in my workplace who I immediately seemed to have a dislike for. This bothered me to a level that I was constantly trying to understand why I felt that way toward them. I eventually realized that it was the fact that they were always full of complaints, stories and frustrations about their mother. As a person who had recently watched her mother go from looking like a healthy 57 year old to looking like she was twice that age before dying just 6 months later this was hard to hear.

      When I examined those feeling even deeper I realized that the emotion that was causing this dislike toward that person was one of Jealousy. I was jealous of this person because she had a mother and I disliked her because she was not appreciative of the fact that her mother was alive.

      Putting words to feelings eventually helps with healing, although Life is messy and our scars and devastations will always be a part of who we are. Emotional experiences can build the foundation of empathetic characteristics. I know my past experiences help me have Patience and Love for others who are also struggling and acting a bit irrational during the most difficult and unfair events that unfold in life.

      Do I wish life would be easier? Absolutely.

      Do I wish all the hurt would end? Of course.

      Will I always resist deep heart pain and loss like a toddler kicking and screaming no I can’t go there again? Most certainly.

      Will I always want to prevent or improve painful moments for others? Yep, because empathetic hearts hurt for other people as well as themselves.

      The one thing I know for sure is I totally appreciate my parents and their quirky manner of guiding us through life! As youngsters if we were complaining about another person, instead of a lecture or explanation a simple comment like “Well, I guess one can’t be jealous without showing it.” would be enough said……… Leaving people to figure it out for themselves might be the answer. Along with prayer for an unstoppable longing to figure out what the “next right thing to do is”

      With Respect, Hope, Joy and Love, Carmela

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    • “Stop Talking”

      Posted at 9:54 AM by carmelasnelbaker
      May 29th

      If you allow Him to, God will lead you to where you need to be, and open your heart and mind to what you are supposed to hear at the exact time He wants you to Hear it.

      I suppose there are many different ways that people receive messages from God and possibly my way is the “care giving way” but I must tell you I wouldn’t want it to be any other way!

      Life can get crazy in caregiving. The responsibilities for the safety and well being of another weighs very heavy on me. Caregiving work is like no other, in the fact that, if your scheduled relief does not show up……. you are not going home. I have been in many situations that staffing issues were that bad that I drove 8 people to my home to pick up my high school aged daughter and brought her to work with me, incase the overnight staff did not show, and I needed to also work the overnight. My company was ok with this and my daughter was the most awesome volunteer staff they could have ever asked for! In later years she referred to that situation as her “Wyatt 101” experience. My belief that God plants us where we need to be at the time we need to be there (if we allow him to) is enforced even more by her comment.

      My latest “blessing messengers” have once again stole every ounce of my heart with their fun and quirky Conversations, Responses and Wisdom. Every one of them has responded to me with what I needed to hear with perfect timing and execution! It often is quite funny the genuine responses and reactions I hear in my fun filled caregiving days!

      “stop talking”

      “there will be no more yoga”

      “isn’t it funny that you were born in the same year…(insert some random historical fact I was never even aware of)”…

      “I Love you, Carmela”

      “we’re taking the red car on a boat ride,and then my mom’s gray car on a boat ride….”

      “Dave Saville said the chipmunks have to go back to the woods……chipmunks can’t go to school”

      “stop that…..there will be no more funny!”.

      I have always found that when “non-work” related areas in my life start becoming worrisome or stressful the “work” area ALWAYS stabilizes me, keeps me going and makes me smile!

      My life has always been truly blessed by where God sends me. It may never appear to be the most sensible economical option and often times I am running ragged and sensless attemtping to balance 3 different jobs at once and keep my sanity, but in the end it ALWAYS ends up giving me spiritual clarity and genuine heartfelt Peace, Joy and Love for others.

      Life can only be as joyful as you choose to make it. Our experiences in life may contain tragic losses and difficult events to endure and often times what feels like sensless encounters, but if the challenges result in stepping back and seeking Wisdom from the pain it will end with lots of Love, Peace and a genuine appreciation for those God has placed in your path to support you when you most needed it!

      God offers us choice. God is Love. Our Choice cannot include anything but Pure Love. The only way to understand Pure Love is to (as my special messengers tell me….lol) “STOP TALKING”. Shutting off all the noise of the world, opinions of anyone other then God and Love…. brings us to Pure Love For Others.

      Pure Love For Others takes emotional human anger away and Gives You Peace. Actions of LOVE not Anger COME FROM GOD.

      Pray for others, do not put judgement on others.

      Judgement toward another human being is NOT a choice any human or GROUP should make!

      Lifting others in prayer, asking and listening for God’s Wisdom is what will bring PURE LOVE AND PEACE TO THE WORLD.

      Pray for others. Pray for Pure Love and Peace for All.

      With Respect, Hope, Joy and Love, Carmela

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    • What if?

      Posted at 1:50 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      May 15th

      I appologize in advance because nothing I write here will probably make complete sense to anyone other then me. I cannot share details about others I take care of or that are involved in my life.

      However, events, encounters and the questions that often get left behind, after traumatic events and the struggle to make sense out of so much hurt is not an uncommon dilemma.

      I hope by sharing the hurts and questions that weigh so heavy on my heart it might make sense to someone struggling with the same questions.

      There are way to many painful experiences that people go through that leave us devastated and searching for a path out of such deep hurt.

      The things we have in common with others are not always apparent when we first meet someone.

      The scars one has on their heart is not a visable trait for a passerby to see.

      Time passes, we somehow find a way to move forward along with the rest of world but the hurts that hit the heart the hardest never really go away.

      It is possible for people who appear to have amazing resiliency from past traumatic events to be truly living their lives as if they have been “cast in a roll in a play”. Survival is necessary because others depend on us.

      Hearts scarred from life tragedies can identify with others “surviving” with scarred hearts, there is a heightened awarness and recognition of deep hurts in others.

      Is the road less traveled the tragically broken heart that keeps walking even when your body simply wants to stop breathing?

      Is the road less traveled the road where those with broken hearts attempt to seek out other “play actors” walking forward with hidden traumatic pain in an attempt to be the positive influence and offer the very support and love they desperatly need themselves?

      Is the road less traveled the road that keeps an open heart and empathy toward all people in pain even those showing unsettled rage and aggression because of devestation and pain?

      What if all of the hate in the world is emotionally misdirected hurt and rage?

      What if the road less traveled is the road of silencing human feelings, the emotional pain and praying for the message of God to take over?

      As I type this I sit here crying, the only words coming to mind are….. “now wait, now….. you just have to be smarter then the chair you are working on” ………… recalculating …… return to route

      Please leave your thought below……… open a discussion with others….. share you thoughts, fears, hopes with others……

      Nothing can ever be resolved without putting words to feelings, sharing experiences and most importantly being sensitive and empathetic to other situations

      With Respect, Hope, Joy and Love, Carmela

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    • Recalculating………..Return to the Route

      Posted at 10:24 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      May 5th

      What if one day you woke up and everything that once was, is now completely different?

      I know for sure that life is not easy. But I also know for sure that no matter how bad it is, it could always be worse. There will always be something to be grateful for when you have Faith.

      To this day I can still hear my mom and dads voices from heaven reminding me how they supported me through a struggle. It often makes me smile the quirky phrases or references they often used.

      “Now wait now…….you just have to be smarter than the chair you are working on” dad would say. My dad was a woodworker. I was the upholsterer. Lol 

      I loved to sew and upholstered many pieces. The fragile antique wood items challenged me. Dad came to my rescue on many occasions. 

      I know it is much harder to instruct someone and watch them struggle while learning the solution to the problem, then it is to take over do it for them. 

      I am glad dad chose the hard way and took the time to teach me how to solve problems and contemplate answers rather then taking over and doing it for me. 

      Being ‘Level Headed” “Humble” and “Wise” were all admirable traits of a good person in my dad’s book. Being open to new ideas and various opinions, were also good traits, but the utmost importance was having courage and confidence in our Inner Spirit.

      My 11 year old grandson taught me that true courage comes from God. “I’ll be brave” he would say when being faced with yet another medical procedure or difficult challenge. When he was particularly fearful he would fold his hands a pray. “Dear God, Please take the scary stuff away.” Prayer is powerful when faith is deep.

      “When I found that I knew not only that there was God but that I was a child of God, when I understood that, When I comprehended that, more than that, when I internalized that, ingested that, I became courageous.” Dr. Maya Angelou

      I find myself hesitating as I write this. The need to use the right words to communicate clearly is Huge! Although my Faith and understanding has never been stronger I worry that the very problem itself is Not the Words that are written, or what we are reading once it is written ….. The real problem lies in the Level of Faith the reader has in what is True.

      If your faith is shallow what you read will be understood at the limited level your human understanding will allow. Without Faith in a Higher Power we are limited in our understanding of what is Right and what is True.

      It is impossible to communicate the Truth if the reader or the writer has little Faith in what is True.

      Without Truth there is nothing. Without Faith there IS no Truth.

      In a world of many people, many languages and many levels of Faith, it is wrong for a person, Political Party, or Religious Right group to attempt to be the enforcers of God’s word. The very thought a Church or Political Group would even WANT to make laws and force others to follow those laws is a HUGE example of their Faulty level of faith!

      When you feel the need to take over and do things yourself so that your level of understanding is enforced, you are showing how truly WEAK your faith really is…….. HAVE YOU NOT MISSED THE POINT OF PRAYER AND THE POWER OF YOUR GOD?

      WHEN YOU FEEL THE NEED TO BLOCK SOMEONE BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE THE OTHER HUMAN WILL FAIL TO SEE IT AT “FACE VALUE” ……. YOU ARE SHOWING WHAT LITTLE FAITH YOU HAVE IN GOD!

      IS IT NOT WISER TO PRAY TO THE HIGHER POWER?

      IS IT NOT WISER TO ASK FOR GOD’S WISDOM AND GUIDANCE DURING LIFE’S DIFFICULT MOMENTS?

      IS IT NOT WISER TO PRAY FOR ALL OF THOSE WHO ARE IN NEED OF GUIDENCE?

      DIDN’T JESUS TEACH HIS DISCIPLES HOW TO PRAY?

      Re-evaluate your level of Faith………. Let go of human arrogance……..let go of the need to control the outcome of your prayers……… Let God be in control……..Pray for the courage to allow his will to be done as Jesus taught us………..

      With Respect, Hope, Joy and Love, Carmela

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    • The Tiny Mustard Seed of Faith

      Posted at 9:24 AM by carmelasnelbaker
      Jul 17th

      In a world so divided on so many topics where human arrogance overflows and has brewed into hate, violence and death over attempts to gain or keep power and control “The Mustard Seed Of Faith” is desperately needed.

      When all the lines are blurred and deliberate attempts are made to “muddy the waters” so Truth is never revealed, maybe it is time we step back and look at the bigger picture. See the Human arrogance for what it truly is, and let go of it. Park that Halo you think you are wearing (or deserve) look in the mirror and truly see the person you are. The Human Being that has faults, makes mistakes, that is equal BUT not worthier than any other human being on this earth. A Human Being who may look differently, act or communicate differently and in God’s Eyes is AS Precious but not MORE precious than every other Human Being.

      Not until you completely lower your importance to the same level of your oppositions can true communication and understanding be accomplished. It is NOT JUST the “walk a mile in my shoes” reference or belief that is needed. Rather an IMMERSE YOURSELF IN THEIR VERSION OF EXISTANCE that is needed to fully understand and empathize with others. Even more then just listening, it is actively making an attempt at HEARING what another person is saying and also FEELING what it must be like to live in their situation.

      Each of us is not without sin, however when communicating with another human being if “their sin” is the first thing that you see or address, at that point might “your sin” be even greater.

      One of my favorite Bible verses has always been Matthew 17:20

      And he said to them “for truly I say to you, if you have faith the size of a mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move; and nothing will be impossible to you Matthew 17:20 .

      The parable of the mustard seed also describes how God’s Kingdom grows in the life of each believer. When a person puts their trust in Jesus, the Holy Spirit comes to live within. When the mustard seed is planted in the ground even though it may not be seen by others it continues to grow, rooting more deeply, gaining stength and growing more and more every day.

      When carrying the tiny mustard seed parable in you heart it helps us to understand that even a seemingly small act of kindness, saying a faith-filled prayer for someone, or whatever faith-motivated act we take, no matter how small, can have an eternal and mountain-moving impact on another’s life.

      It is THIS knowledge and faith that I pray begins to appear more in the world we now live in. As our leaders making laws and often arguing their opinions with great human arrogance, may we all pray and believe with that tiny mustard seed of Hope that it will not be the Human arrogance that prevails but the Mercy, Love and Kindness of God that comes through and moves those mountains.

      With Respect, Hope, Joy and Love, Carmela

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    • The Right Road, Really?

      Posted at 2:15 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      Apr 9th

      During a cross country trip traveling with my daughter, we sat in a roadside restaurant somewhere in South Dakota. Our attention was directed to a little girl about 3 or 4 years old, I am not sure what she did to get our attention but I remember commenting to her father about how cute she was. “Well, she is definitely a leader” her father commented, and with a chuckle he continues to tell us “I said to my wife, we better make sure she goes down the right road, because if we don’t she will be taking a lot of people down the wrong road with her”.

      That quick encounter happened 19 years ago. I have recalled that moment many times since, the memory always brings a smile and a chuckle, and makes me wonder where and what that sweet child is doing now.

      In that moment while my daughter and I sat admiring a child who couldn’t contain the Joy the day was bringing her, each one of us were unaware of the events that will be yet to unfold in each of our futures.

      Recently during caregiving, the wife of a person I was taking care of stated to me, “if I knew before hand the death and illness my family would have to face, I would never even have gotten married.”

      Time is irreplaceable. Life doesn’t allow for “do overs”. It requires us to dive into unforeseen adventures.

      Is there really such a thing as “the right road” or is that “road” forever changing and relative only to each precious moment in time?

      I have learned that life teaches by experiences. We can try to prepare ourselves and do our absolute best at living “right” and staying on the “right road” but in reality, each moment of the day we are called to improvise and navigate through the encounters life brings to us in that very moment.

      The maturity of our faith can change with every new event we experience; new person we encounter or conversation we share.

      22 years ago my mother who was nearing death was attempting to prepare me for navigating through my life without her. What she was telling me wasn’t making sense in that moment. It appeared as if she was hallucinating or deeply confused. It wasn’t until after her passing when events began to unfold and the memories of those moments began to become clear.

      For months afterward I searched every memory for a deeper meaning, trying desperately to understand the hidden messages she was attempting to place before me. I never felt so alone and unprepared for what was next to come. I prayed desperately for understanding, wisdom and strength to continue on and know what to do next. I searched each word that was spoken to me for a deeper meaning. I ran each sentence over and over in my mind trying to decipher its intended message. Finally, at the point of exhaustion I lay down in a field one night crying hysterically asking God “please just come and be me, because I don’t know how to be me anymore”.

      Deep in my heart I knew mothers can’t give up. Responsibilities loom and love reaches out beyond all limitations. It wasn’t until that night laying in the field under the stars when I ask God to take over and help me be me, that I wholeheartedly understood that He doesn’t want us to be doing this alone. He is more than a Prayer; He is our inner strength. He is the very breath we inhale, the Blood that keeps our body alive. He is our Soul. The heartbeat in our earthly body that keeps us alive and carries us through difficult experiences.

      My life from this point on has not been easy it has included devastating sorrow with the loss of our 11-year-old grandson but also great appreciation for the Blessing of his presence with us for those beautiful and precious 11 years.

      The Holy Spirit within continues to keep me strong and resilient, fills me with understanding, empathy and respect for others, but most of all fills me with Joy every time I am able to share in the daily Miracles and Blessing that continue to prove God’s Love for us.

      With Respect, Hope, Joy and Love, Carmela

       

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    • Are You A Human Doing or Human Being?

      Posted at 11:55 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      Apr 5th

      How many times do we find ourselves at the end of a day feeling as though we haven’t “accomplished anything”?

      The list of things we wanted to get done still hovers in that thought bubble waiting to be crossed off and marked as completed.

      How many conversations do we have with friends or family that contain only descriptions of what we’ve done or what we’re planning to do next?

      I came upon a sign today saying “There is a reason that we are called Human Beings and not Human Doings”. What an interesting thought to ponder!

      As a very active person who likes to stay busy the word human doing did not sound so bad to me, however I realize the thought behind the expression is much more about the emotional and spiritual absence in a person’s life.

      A heart that feels like it has to prove its worth will make lists and check off tasks, striving to build a life of meaning. We busy ourselves making to do lists, checking off tasks and constantly talking of our daily accomplishments.

      Seeking a feeling of worthiness from tasks and performance leaves you running like a hamster on a wheel never to arrive at your final destiny.

      I am sure every person has experienced living as a Human Doing at some time in their life and most likely it is something a heart can slip back into even after recognizing the beauty, peace and importance of learning to BE rather than DO or perform.

      A wounded and heavy heart can lie dormant without feeling, almost as if choosing numbing blindness will keep it from seeing pain.

      No amount of work or accomplishments will ever make an empty heart feel whole.

      Meditation is how we can wake our hearts and learn to be. When we seek to awaken the Divine Spirit within our hearts our hearts and minds are attuned and in harmony with other spiritual beings. Recognizing and accepting Divine Unconditional Love awakens a contentment within us. We experience an Ease of Well-being.

      If I share words that awaken a message within you, it is only because an experience or message was awakened within me from another spiritual being. The harmony and positive energy spiritual beings share with each other can only be explained as Miraculous Divine Love and guidance.

      As a caregiver who has had the honor of giving care to those approaching life in heaven  I am constantly amazed by the wisdom they share.

      Psalm 90:12  So Teach us to number our days that we may get a heart of wisdom.

      Each individual is unique and no Human Being is ever perfect. When we are facing end of life perfection and accomplishments no longer seem to be the focus. Imperfect moments are acceptable and there is a genuine purity and honesty in being that is very comforting.

      Finding and developing a personal connection with Divine Spirit is not always an easily traveled journey. In sharing end of life experiences with departing souls I’ve found it can also be a lengthy and difficult journey of separation for the soul.

      The amazing thing is that, among the disoriented busy activity the brain and body are experiencing, it is possible to reach beyond the physical activity mental confusion and fear to awaken the heart and bring peace with a familiar hymn, scripture reading, rosary or cross.

      Like heavy stones beneath rushing water the heart and soul seems to stay anchored in Love and Peace even though the body and mind busy themselves restlessly searching and preparing themselves for the separation of the soul.

      With Respect, Joy, Peace, and Love,   Carmela

       

       

      contentment

      beautiful mindset

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    • No Stocking Up On Bread And Milk For This Mama :)

      Posted at 3:57 PM by carmelasnelbaker
      Mar 15th

      This week we are shoveling out from a large snow storm that showered our area with 12 to 18 inches of snow.  News reports predicted the event giving people time to prepare for the temporary changes a large snowfall causes in our daily routines.

      The video below of an eagle sitting on her nest during the snow storm makes me think of the bible verse Matthew 6:25-2725… Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? 26: Look at the birds of the air; They do not sow or reap or gather into barns, and yet your heavenly father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? 27: Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his lifespan?…

      I wonder if wildlife ever has any moments of fear or dread when facing up coming blizzards that  sometimes happen in our life as people do who have lived through difficult days.

      What an awesome glimpse at the strength and resilience of wildlife.

      eagle in snow

      eagle in snow

      As a caregiver who travels to different locations my first action when hearing the storm forecast was begging the garage to fit me in to replace two tread worn tires with a new set to help ensure my safe arrival.

      Next step was packing the vehicle with an assortment of safety and emergency supplies so I was well prepared for worst case scenario. The office calls with the game plan of stationing a caregiver at each of our 24 hour care locations for the 24 hour duration. This would help ensure our patients coverage and keep the highway travels to a minimum.

      I show up with my “in case” supplies in tow. I was well prepared for possible power outage or lengthy stay. Thankfully my “in case” supplies were not necessary and we were just able to enjoy a relaxing visit watching the snow pile up and enjoy each others company.

      My patient commented that I must have been a Girl Scout because I came so prepared. When I had to explain to her “Unfortunately no, I was a Brownie drop out.” we both got a good chuckle.

      My preparedness comes from many difficult life events that has taught me to rely on God’s wisdom to give me strength and direction. We all have the ability to survive and thrive independently if we search deep within and find strength from the Higher power. It may not always be easy but it is possible with prayer and Divine Guidance.

      Like the verse says “Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his lifespan?”

      Thank you Mother Eagle for reminding us to Trust more and worry less.

      Pray for strength and wisdom then relax into the Joy and Peace that Divine Guidance provides.

      With Respect, Hope, Joy and Love,  Carmela

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    • Topography of Our Journey Of Life

      Posted at 7:29 AM by carmelasnelbaker
      Feb 14th

      https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/seriousness/

      When my heart is heavy my mind seems to go into overdrive.

      As a gust of strong wind outside sends the wind chimes into continuous song

      and morning light awakens a new day.

      I attempt to center my thoughts deeply into a place of inner silence and remembrance.

      In a place of centered stillness my heart searches to find life’s Beauty Wisdom and Hope.

      Thoughts appear in the form of memories and visions.

      An aura of calming presence.

      Connection to both past and future draws the minds inner focus.

      With a feeling of familiar understanding, the mind begins to see clearly the fragmented moments in a lifetime.

      A calming realization comes with the understanding and acceptance that each piece of time in ones lifetime is necessary.

      Each piece of time individually supports another.

      Like a carefully planned domino trail, God places each individual tile of time and loved ones, with miraculous precision and love.

      Each one equally as important as the next, placed accurately to complete a smooth flowing journey from beginning to end.

      Although moments along the way may not seem to flow smoothly, arrival at a place of serious reflection shows each critical moment was necessary to arrive at the place where you are today.

      As they all together they build a memory that reveals a completed topography of our Journey on earth.

      Our roots are deep with generations of lessons and love.

      The future before us is best taken one moment at a time

      with awareness of presence, and appreciation for each fragile second.

      Slow the multitasking.

      Focus on the Breath that gives us Life.

      Honor the Creator.

      Focus and send prayers of Love for All Living Beings.

      roots

      With Respect, Hope, Joy and Love,   Carmela

       

      Two beautiful posts worth sharing. Hope you will read and enjoy

      Needed Now…Serious Positivity.

      Valentine’s Day

       

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